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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
I don't think being being forthcoming with every detail is ideal at every phase to be honest. As trust builds more can be revealed if and when it is necessary and relevant to your current relationship. Depends on the people involved too but in most cases I think laying it all on the table at the forefront isn't really something people should do.
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That's what I think too. When it comes to my in-person relationships, even if it's just friendship, I can be really private. Online is a totally different story though
I think that very personal details should be revealed when I'm ready and the time is right for it, otherwise it feels forced and weird and like I'm oversharing. Some things in my life I may never feel fully comfortable talking about. I think that in the case of being open with my past, saying, "I don't really like to talk about it" is sufficient enough, or just not giving details.