I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I'm seriously beginning to see and understand that a large percentage of these people are dysfunctional. So it does become for you , that she was so dysfunctional that she ran away. It's not your fault that she's dysfunctional. Try to see this as healing , albeit that the healing comes about in a somewhat twisted and paradoxical way. If you can OBSERVE the dysfunction you see , rather than FEELING that it's your fault , it may help. I'm working on this at the moment and it isn't easy. If they abuse the position they are in to terminate , you just have to feel sorry for them that they don't know any better. Understand the power is still and always has been with you. Hugs , and please do continue to post so you can hopefully process this more with understanding and supportive people who have been there too.