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Originally Posted by LilyMop
I don’t think you should get involved at all. It’s kind of like codependent behavior. You’ve talked about trying to change some of your behaviors and this is one that ties in with all of that.
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So, is it the moral thing to not get involved at all? Or is it that
my way of intervening is immoral and that
I should refrain?
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Originally Posted by Chyialee
It's seldom easy to intrvene appropriately when there is hurtful so-called "banter" going on. But once or twice I've seen/heard someone say quietly, "Hey now. Don't you think you're going a bit over the line?" or something similar. Only thing I've ever said & done in a similar situation was, I thought things were extremely out of hand and said that I'd be going bc I wasn't comfortable with the way the evening was unfolding.. And left.
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My experience has been completely the opposite. I have trouble staying out of it. But yeah, it can be difficult trying to handle the situation in a way that everyone is happy in the end.