I've gotten this my whole life, still to this day. 'omg you're so quiet' 'why you so quiet?' 'you never speak, why don't you ever speak?'
Like I know i'm quiet, you don't have to tell me
Over the years, the more of these comments I got, the more quiet and introverted I became. Its like whenever I did speak, people were like 'wooooah, omg you spoke'. So annoying tbh.