Cyran0,

I know that we are all human, and to an extent, we humans react on human nature. I would preferred that our relationship is open and honest. I don't believe that he should keep viewing porn, even if it out of sight out of mind for me. Now, there are movies on TV that show some explicit scenes, and we have watch it, but to go and view a porn that shows graphic sex, just makes me think that's what he wants, he has even expressed that to me. i find it uncomfortable, and I don't want to have it in the back of my mind when we are having sex, that he is thinking of those sex scenes and is trying to out live them in our bed. I think that if we can work together on this and come up with a solution, then we can get through this. But still watching it, even behind my back, or in secret, that's really not going to solve this issue. I'm glad it worked out in your situation, i wish I could feel the same, but my issues go to deep, to ignore.