My wife and I have been married for 19 years. About 12 months ago we started having serious problems in our marriage - to the point where we almost divorced over the summer. We started counselling with a very good psychologist. We have stayed together and over the last couple of months we have turned our relationship around. We love each other and our relationship is getting better. We haven't had sex in about 11 months. How do we bring that part of our relationship back? I'm in no hurry. But this is an important part of a marriage and it bothers me that she is in no hurry to rebuild this part. She says she wants sex in our marriage but she's not ready yet. Is there anything I can do to help her get ready? Any and all advice is welcomed.