Ive been lurking for a while now,but i really need some advice!
Im married for 3 years,together for 5.In the beginning it was great,i felt he adored me.Things went downhill as i have anger issues,(i hit him a few times...and he hit me back)I also self injure,which drives him nuts.I have been in therapy for over a year,and it is slowly working.About 6 months ago his two teenage kids(16 and 18)moved in.I have a 10 year old already living with us.I may be crazy,but he almost changed overnight.He changed towards my daughter,and i just dont feel loved.He seems very bitter towards me,and i dont blame him.He is unsupportive of therapy,thinks i should only talk to him.We fight over everything.He lets his kids do whatever,im from a different school.i worry if they are safe.I worry what effect they will have on my daughter.I know none of the kids will be around forever,but our marriage is falling apart.We dont show each other any caring or love,just bitterness.This all makes me cut even more.
Should i try to save my marriage,or just go.How do you even go about saving a marriage.I cant talk.I feel too hurt.