Hi Kirkland and Welcome to PC!

Have you both discussed this issue with your psychologist? Maybe it's something that she would feel safer discussing this during the session.

In the meantime, have either of you done anything to "spice" up your relationship such as making dates with one another? Setting time aside to go out to a romantic dinner and a movie, going for walks hand in hand, revisiting a place you both enjoyed being at in happier days?

I'm wondering if your wife might be going through some physical aging issues such as menapause possibly? Has she had a physical recently? Just a thought here that hormones might also be playing into this a bit.

I commend the both of you for working so hard on your marriage and not giving in so easily. Relationships take lots of work and your commitment to one another is awesome!

Wishing you all the best!


sabby