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Default Oct 20, 2019 at 09:33 PM
 
Yeah. Been through this a few times. For me, the bottom line is, it's gonna come out. It always does. The only question is, do you want to do that now, before there is a lot of investment in the relationship, or do you wait and hope they're not angry for you not having divulged earlier? I used to wait. But I've changed. I decided it's better for me to be out there with this thing than to try to sneak it in later. If she freaks, then she obviously is not the girl for me. It's worked fairly well so far.

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