recently a lot of posts have turned up about pornography, good or bad

I recently made the decision to eliminate all forms of pornographic material from my life....It was a personal decision based on many factors

yes im a sex addict...

I dont have any desire to get up on a soap box and spew all the
bad things about pornography to anyone on this forum
we are free to indulge ourselves however we see fit and whatever choices you make i'm not here to judge

over the past 7-8 years I have spent over 15,000 dollars on online services,videos,phone sex, sex mags, sex shops...everything but actually paying a woman for real sex....imagine that

my marriage has suffered as well as my spiral into depression

and always remember, sexual addiction is not about SEX, but core
feelings of lonliness and unworthiness and an inability to
forge relationships based on anything but instant gratification