Unfortunately, I have been on dating sites for 15 (ackkk) years; a lot of players, men who stood me up, didn't call, a lot of them are married and just messing around; Trust your gut...oh, and a lot of men who talk about sex immediately; major turn off for me. Iam old-school, old-fashioned with values and manners.

I was in an abusive marriage for 31 years and it took me so long to get a divorce, but I am now aware of the red flags...I imagine there are some good men, but I haven't met one in all of these years; but I won't give up!

Whatever your boundaries are, stick to them; don't allow disrespect, etc.