Well it seems as though you were open enough with her to say that you didn't want to come back and you want another T-- have you discussed this perceived changed in attitude with her? Could it be that depending on what is going on in session triggers you to look at her in a certain way or is she really acting like that to you? I think it is an important thing to discuss. I'm not dismissing what you are saying-- it is entirely possible that she is acting a certain, but I know with my T there are many times when I have projected my own feelings onto him and that effects how I perceive him.