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Originally Posted by theoretical
Okay, I'll play.
Problem-solving:
PROBLEM: Getting married soon to a wonderful person who I love dearly. Having doubts for no logical or articulable reason.
EMOTIONS: Anxiety, self-loathing, confusion.
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Maybe find a premarital counselor.
Maybe find a personal therapist, too.
Write in a journal to see if you can figure out where the anxiety and confusion are coming from.
Depending on trust issues concerning finances or disillusionment, maybe a prenup might be a solution.
Speaking frankly and honestly with your fiance is also an option.
PROBLEM: My neighbor keeps yelling at his wife and kids in the middle of the night. I also hear things slamming and breaking.
EMOTIONS: Fear, anger, irritability