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I don’t think enjoying arguments and fighting necessarily makes someone a “bad person.” My only reason for suggesting that you generally refrain from speaking up on someone else’s behalf is that I know you’re working on making different choices for yourself.

I don’t think intention necessarily makes a difference either. You know what they say about the road to hell being paved with good intentions and all. Whether a person intends good or bad seems irrelevant when the outcome is essentially going to be exactly the same.