Dear jrae, First of all, I'm so very sorry you lost your aunt. I also lost my aunt, & it still hurts a lot. So you have that painful grief you're dealing with on top of everything else. God bless you. You're trying so hard & it seems like others in your family don't understand what you're going through, while you're trying to make your appointment & be safe. I was thinking, there are volunteers who will drive you. Charities & churches use volunteer drivers all the time. Maybe you could ask around or search the web. Anyway, I sure hope it works out for you. Take good care of yourself, the way your aunt would want you to. Lots of hugs!