Isn’t odd how things change. I moved out of my parent’s home when I was 18 and didn’t give it a second thought; my husband and I moved across the world to Japan.

My daughter went off to college this year. I absolutely know that this is the best thing for her, but it did not help. Her father and I are both upset every time she goes back to college after a weekend visit; we try very hard not to let her know that though. I am so excited; she’ll be out of school next month and will be home for the summer.

I haven’t had to do it cold turkey yet, and I don’t know how I’ll handle it when it’s permanent. I had an epiphany when she moved out, it occurred to me that I’ve never known anyone to go off to college and return home. I know that my baby is now an adult and my time with her is limited. I find myself wishing that it was a hundred years ago when children married and stayed on the farm with their parents.

Having them leave the nest is a part of the cycle of life, I feel your pain.