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Old Oct 23, 2019, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom View Post
Miguel saw his t. He now denies what he said. He get his computer back. Nothing else was solve. I'm mad there's no services for teenagers. Miguel feels comfortable with the outcome. So he sees t in 5 weeks and pdoc in a little over a month. T says it's normal teen things. I don't agree but there's nothing we can do. We're still waiting for his pdoc to call back but I think the earliest would be Monday.
Hi!

I am not really clear, sorry.
Are you saying the therapist has ruled against your decisions as parents?

it sounds like you are not comfortable with the therapist's viewpoints?

Do you feel the therapist knows M better than his parents know him?

I forget, does this t know M?

How will you and H deal with this? Will you follow the advice of the T?

Will you hold out, sticking to your own decisions?

Will you take some time to think about it all, before making any changes?


I tend to allow myself some time to think about my own decisions/viewponts and the input of others. (including a T). I try to not have an immediate reaction to anyone else's viewpoint..

If i had made decisions about my son, knowing him well, I'd take the t's advice/viewpont into consideration. I would not change my prior decision if I was uneasy about the T's viewpoint.

I would then give it all, both stances, a great deal of thought.

Just my two cents.

I hope things work out for the best with you and your family.
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