Yes, sounds like she's severely depressed. You should see my house at this point. I find it hard to get anything accomplished and the state of my house drags me down further. I would love for someone to give me a supportive, loving, helping hand. If I had someone around who thought of me as being lazy it further my belief that my existence is pointless. In a severe state of depression nothing matters because you feel so worthless and everyone is better off without you anyway.

She needs help and guidance. She needs someone to say you matter to me, I understand you down and I love you and am here to help you through it but you need to start...

two cents