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Originally Posted by missbella
The experience in retrospect is two people in unrealistic roles whose needs and unconsciousness harmed one another. It was more a power struggle. It certainly wasn't planned or calculated. Neither participant understood it at the time.
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this is exactly what my ex-T and i have agreed upon as being the primary contribitor to me experiencing aspects of therapy with him as harmful....it was a power struggle that was occurring between us. it took me a while to really be able to recognise it and with the aid of our post therapy conversations, its taken even longer for my ex-T to finally understand and admit that it had happened.