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I really liked this guy. I still like him. I also don't think I should contact him. I'm not in a place right now to be rejected again. Or hurt
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It's perfectly ok to like someone, even still like them. Perhaps you shared some good moments with him where you made some personal connections. There is really nothing wrong with that either, after all you are only human.
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Here are some of the things he said to me that raised Flags: I'm afraid to give up my bachelor life. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt you because of my issues. My life is great but I don't have a good romantic life. I want to be friends. You're the first person who made me feel like I wanted to be in a relationship in a really long time. Sometimes I feel a little sad talking to you.
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When someone says things like this "believe them" and begin looking for another partner. Just because someone is on one of these dating sites doesn't mean they are necessarily ready for a relationship, and sometimes they are just exploring or window shopping or tire kicking with no intention of buying anything. That is pretty much what this guy is saying to you too.