With all my previous T it was the BS line they would throw at me when they had no flipping clue what they were doing but couldn’t admit they were over their heads.
Current T uses it too though... even has it over his door. With current T most of the meaning means trusting the relationship. He has tons of training in what is supposed to help and what does harm, I have my experience and needs... they come together in the relationship and together WE trust the healing will occur. T has totally admitted that with me especially he has to trust the process as well. T has stated repeatedly that the healing is more in the relationship than it is in any specific training or technique so I am sure that colors my experience and perspective with him.
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There’s been many a crooked path
that has landed me here
Tired, broken and wearing rags
Wild eyed with fear
-Blackmoores Night
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