Maybe since he’s acting like a child by not getting a job you could give him a curfew ?? Early enough that they can hoof it ??? Act like a child get treated like one ?

Just the fact that you basically had no food ! No food to eat to get through until next month should really be a HUGE incentive for him to get a job and help out wasn’t he hungry ? .... all the money on gas you have spent this month toting them around could have bought a lot of groceries.

I really hate to see you in this situation with your son