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Old Oct 27, 2019, 07:11 AM
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Lark, it's okay to not be strong all the time. It's okay to take some time and fall apart. It's okay to let you loved ones know you are worried about them. This has to bring back ugly memories and feelings for you. It's okay to feel all that stuff. Personally, the more I try to stuff that kind of thing, the worse it gets.

Your parents are probably having feelings similar to yours. It would be nice if all of you could talk about what's going on, but it sounds like they are not open to that. Find a place where you have some privacy and let yourself fall apart for a bit.

You said you wish you had someone to talk to. Might not be the same as talking to a person face to face, but we are here for you.

(*(*(*(*Lark*)*)*)*)
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