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Originally Posted by Bookworm257
Whenever I see my friend hanging with someone I don't know, and laughing etc I get jealous that they're gonna leave me or that they like this person much more than they like me.
At the slightest indication that they don't like me (they give a wrong look for a split second, even if inadvertent), I catastrophize into thinking that they secretly hate me and that they don't even want to hang out or be friends with me.
I have a fear that they're going to leave me, and this s exaverbated when they give the smallest hints of this and then I panic.
I feel guilty for these things, but I do feel them. Is something I need to talk to a profesional with or is it somewhat normal?
Thanks for listening.
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Thank you for sharing this because I myself have the same identical situation going on with my wife. She is always gone hanging out with her friends and no time with me then I am left feeling unworthy and guilty of not being good enough for her