She told me she saw a psychologue and a psychiatrist.

The psychologue is the type of woman to get friendly with her and to help her forget me. The psychologue told her after first session that she does not have bpd, but emotionally immaturity. She also tell to my ex gf that having bpd traits is something that plenty persons have...


The psychiatrist, after a consultation of 30 min, told her he cannot diagnose her with bpd because she should be "non functionnal" in daily life. But that she definitely has bpd traits.


She told her that I consider her a quiet high fonctionning bpd, and the psy told her she cannot diagnose her with this because it does not exist officialy.


Me I always considered her being a quiet high fonctionning bpd, so the psy is kinda right.


But in 30 min, while she does not admit many of symptoms and I am sure she does not want to be diagnosed with bpd, I am not at all surprised the psy did not diagnosed her with that.

The problem is that now she thinks absolutely is wrong with her. She tells me that she does not have nothing. And that I am wrong, I "manipulated" her into believing she has something she does not (bpd), she lost money because of me etc...