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Originally Posted by divine1966
If someone very close to me said something insensitive (like my husband for example-if he did that, he does not) I’d feel hurt. Other than that no, things people say don’t get under my skin. If I had thin skin I’d be eaten alive in my line of work. I
am able to move on quickly and not let things shake me up.
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What do you think some of us do that get us jabbed by those close and supposedly caring to us? Is it simply our loved ones natures vs those close to you are kinder people? Do you think some of us are just magnets for it? Subconsciously annoying people and ‘asking for it’? It’s truly puzzling to me.
Now, I’ve had a mixture of some close people who never took a jab, nor have I to them. Then I’ve had others who did jab, and I have not done it to them.
For me, it’s really been about a handful of comments that still irk me. I may have OCD, so things just repeat more in my mind.