because it is bothering you it is significant... your feelings are important and deserve to be looked at... even if nothing else happened it has caused you to keep it locked inside for all these years... i think it;s is very much worth looking at and working through... i experienced abuse from different men and some of the things that wounded me the most probably look insignificant to others... but have kept me in shame... i know i am not making a lot of sense... i just got home from a really hard t session... lyn