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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Does anyone else take people’s thoughtless comments to heart?
I really don’t let go of certain callous comments that really get to me.
I suppose they are especially hurtful because they are true, that’s why they sting. They make me obsess to criticize myself, soul-searching whether they are true. I get so incensed that someone who presents as a friend or a helpful professional would make such a disparaging dig, and feel such deep resentment that they think so little of me.
I suppose I am fairly ‘thin skinned’. But most comments don’t send me reeling or most people who say something stupid don’t offend or get to me. I’m pretty good about letting all that slide. It’s just the really offensive, deep cuts that I really don’t ever get over.
Anyone else?
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I really don't like people that say, " it's not as bad as all that". though I can sort of understand they are trying to make you feel better, to me it's an insult. they have no idea what I am going through
my other one is, " you're just tired". ugg. really?