I am SO SORRY things are being so hard for you. I wish I could give you some GOOD Advice... please keep in touch with us. I hope that, whathever it happens, you'll get out of it ALIVE! Take WONDERFUL care of Yourself, my dear, sweet friend. Let us know how it goes. I am sending many hugs and many positive thoughts along you and your Wifeìs way and to your Family, Friends, Therapists and Pdocs as well! Keep fighting and keep rocking no matter what happens, ok?