Just find activities you would be interested in and join those groups. I like Meetup for the most part. A few years ago they got political so I pulled back at that time but it seems like they’ve balanced out a bit since then. Also, guys I don’t know occasionally message me through Meetup but I ignore them. Other people say they get messages from the same guys. It’s weird. Other than that it’s a good way to get out and start new hobbies and meet new people.