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Seems to me it's also important that your T was able to acknowledge and deal with his own countertransference, and its source, and so you all were able to work your way through that.
Do you have an update on that?
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Those feelings just seemed to become less intense as I was able t stay in my adult self because my core adult self. I still feel that part but because I need my T more than ever because husband has to have a life changing surgery. Full bladder removal because of his cancer. I am the one that will be having to take care of him for months after surgery and work.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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