I am so sorry you are having to deal with this. It is very frustrating. In my experience, sometimes we have to say goodbye, even to 'family,' I haven't spoken to my only sibling in 7 years. Wouldn't have it any other way. He's a *******.

I'd rather have one person I can basically count on than ten who mistreat me. You deserve better than what you are receiving. Personally, I wouldn't be afraid to say goodbye to some of these folks. It might give you some peace of mind. I hope you feel better. No-one deserves to be ignored. It's rude.