I'm a lot younger than 55 and I get the same kind of attitude from people. I've since learned who I can I share this info with and who I can't. My children get upset with me for being unable to do things I used to do, and I gently remind them that it's due to my fibromyalgia...that I am doing the best I can under the circumstances... I often feel sad for the part of me that is lost.

Take gentle care, surround yourself with people who are supportive. Being around unsupportive people exacerbates symptoms.