Two days ago I discovered my husband has been engaging in sex-chat websites for hours at a time as long as I’ve known him (5 years). Online, not in person. In any case, a violation of trust. After long conversations, this discovery was compounded by his shocking admission that He is 45 now and says he will seek help for his apparent sex addiction and PTSD.

I can’t even begin to wrap my head around how he feels and how to move forward now. I feel compassion for him, but worry about myself.

I experience general anxiety disorder and have struggled with depression. My mood has plummeted since finding out two days ago.

Has anyone dealt with this. I don’t want to bring this up to ANYONE we know.