- Get an IUD. There are now small IUDs for nulliparous women - I think Skyla is the name of one of these brands. Get that. That plus a condom ==> better insurance against unwanted pregnancy than sterilization.
- Get condoms. If the guy buys them, great. If he does not, you will be prepared.
- Plan B pills work, but IUD is better and condoms are needed for STI risk reduction - Plan B does not protect against STI's.
- Try not to identify as a group member. Think of "my desires are changing - I used to like A and now I like B, or, and I still like A, but also like B". Identify as yourself. Think if what fascinates you as a unique being and not as a member of a group.
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