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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
Yeah that is true. All good ideas of making yourself more approachable without interjecting. I do smile but I can try some of the other ways you mentioned too. I should tell my friend the same thing since she tends to interject herself which somewhat annoys other people. And she isn’t even aware of it which isn’t good. One thing about being an outsider is that you can notice things more than someone else who may be trying to have a conversation.
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You know what, it sounds like you and your friend are introverts and there is absolutely nothing at all wrong with that. Introverts do tend to listen and notice more. Introverts also tend to seek a deeper level of conversation with others. Introverts usually don’t care for small talk. There are many books you can read about introverts if you enjoy reading. Or maybe you can find some YouTube videos on the subject. Maybe you will find that you can appreciate the qualities of being an introvert plus also seek out other introverts. It’s good if we can love and accept ourselves as we are. I’m sure trying at least but it isn’t easy, I do know that.