Hi Molly
I got told the average waiting time is 3 - 6 months but if you have anybody who can push it a bit for you (i.e. a social worker) you shouldn't have to wait any more than a month....but unfortunately you do need somebody who can push it for you.
Good luck and don't give up ok...i know it's not the same as IRL support but we are here for you....and as we're both in the UK you could always have my fone number if it would help any.
hang in there ok... ((((((((molly)))))))