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Old Oct 30, 2019, 02:53 PM
rdgrad15 rdgrad15 is offline
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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul View Post
And there is a lot to learn when you silently noticing others.I learned a lot just by observing a group of people. My being introvert does not hurt.Ya sometimes I get ignored by others,they think I am boring sort of.
Yeah I agree. There is a lot to learn. Yeah I get ignored too but yeah at least I can notice things that some others may not. In fact most of the extroverts I’ve known both past and present seem to be more oblivious to small details and also are more likely to be hurt and caught off guard by it. There has been times where I’ll notice someone who is an extrovert being mistreated but they won’t notice right away.

Once they noticed, they were obviously and understandably upset. At least with observing, you can decide if a certain person or group of people are even worth trying to open up to in the first place. I’ll admit that has happened to me. At first I will wish to get to know someone or a few people but then later down the road I would find out by how they treat others that they weren’t very nice people to begin with.
Thanks for this!
Mendingmysoul