I just got a new therapist, and he gave me a lengthy questionaire thing to fill out. One of the sections talks about my reltionship.

The questions are -
"In what ways are you compatible" and
"In what ways are you incompatible"

Wow. I have the whole empty space filled in for the incompatible part. I can't think of anything for compatible.

Yikes. That's not good.

But then just last night - we were over looking at that land we just bought staking out where we wanted to position the house that we are building. What the...??!!

Some days we are okay. But some days, I have a really hard time remembering why in the heck I ever married him in the first place.

Maybe I just expect too much out of marriage. Someone did point this out to me - I have no friends, no girlfriends, and I'm not very close with my sisters or my mom. So I don't have anyone I can just go "talk" to like a woman to woman thing. So I dump all my crap on him, instead. Men don't want to hear women's problems like that. Maybe if I had some women friends I could talk to, then I wouldn't bug him with all my stupid issues. I dunno. Too bad I'm extremely social phobic and have a really hard time making (real-life) friends...