I notice what they wear. T for the first few years always wore professional dresses. Once some medical conditions took over she wore dress pants. She was average size and was in her late sixties.

EMDR T wears jeans almost everyday. She is very much a minimalist who wears nice but neutral colors. She says she has never been a girly girl. She is a runner and VERY physically fit. She is in her early 40's. I am jealous because of how fit she is. It inspires me to exercise more.