I pay attention to what my T wears--he's fairly fashionable, wearing well-fitting and usually printed dress shirts, plus socks with stripes or fun patterns like Super Mario Bros. (yesterday). There are certain shirts and socks that I have more positive associations with, so if he's wearing one of those, I feel better about session. Like, "Oh, he's wearing the shirt with zebras on it, this should be a good one." I also pay attention to whether he's wearing glasses--he usually just wears contacts but sometimes wears glasses, which make him look more intellectual and, honestly, more attractive to me. So it can feel a bit intimidating when he wears those (also yesterday!).
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