Another thing- EMDR use to wear the same 2 or 3 outfits to every appointment (as I said she is a minimalist) but lately I gave noticed she is wearing a wider variety of things. A while back she mentioned that since in the last year she has put on a little weight even though her eating and exercise habits have not changed--she thinks it is likely because she hit her 40s.. So I wonder if that is why she has a new (to me) wardrobe.