This is a horribly embarrassing post, especially since it seems that most people on this site are women. Have any men here struggled with performance anxiety and premature ejaculation? This was a major problem with my first sexual partner but seemed to go away with my second. Recently I started getting sexual with a new partner. We haven't had intercourse yet but these problems seem to be back. I don't know what to do about this. I thought I had overcome it but I'm terrified that it's back. It's driving me insane. It makes me hate my body and myself more than I already do.