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Old Nov 02, 2019, 09:33 AM
Xynesthesia2 Xynesthesia2 is offline
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I like beauty and harmony in everything, including people. I do notice if someone obviously has a good aesthetic/fashion sense, if they are physically attractive etc. I have a tendency to be more open and motivated with people I feel attracted to (why I usually also enjoy subtle, unspoken sexual tension in relationships), but it is not a requirement of a good and productive connection. I also don't tend to feel jealous of someone who is better-looking or dressed than myself, because it's not a primary value for me and I am reasonably okay with my own body and style. When I really like someone's fashion or grooming, I more like to pick up things from them for myself. It can be a bit of a distraction if someone's style is overly harsh or a misfit for them, but it does not kill my interest at all if otherwise I like them and find value in communicating with them.
Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight