I notice my T's clothes but usually they're not important to me... One time he wore a baseball cap and it really bothered me because it hid his face. Another time he was wearing sandals and I just find sandals on men really unattractive (unless you're at the beach or something) so I tried not to look at his feet at all.

Sarah, you might ask about whether she exercises and what she does. Exercise has a big effect on mental health so it's worth talking about in therapy.