Dear Pastor T: I don't know how you are going to react when I tell you I SH-ed this week. I'm nervous to tell you. I think you'll be okay, but it's just such a big thing to trust another person with and I don't have that trust built up with you yet. But you said to tell you if I SH so, I want to follow the "rules" and do what you ask of me. Do you know what you are asking of me? Kit