Hi invisible butterfly,
I think little turtle, Rohag and Thirty shades answered your question rather well.
As thirty shades said, it's comforting to know that we can get on the bus when we need to and someone will also get on the bus with words of respect and understanding. There aren't very many places out in the world where people take the time or put forth the effort to be respectful and understanding of others. As thirty shades said a kind is all that is needed here. Nobody in here is about judging or excluding anyone else. Maybe this might help our inner self(ves) to be kinder to self(ves) too. This thread has evolved over time (as many long threads tend to). People get on and off the bus when or if they want to.