Maybe if he was the only man on this planet, you’d have a reason to stay with such a man (even then probably not), but there are many many many excellent men out there. Not sure why you choose this kind of life when you can have a great life

I had to read twice about having kids with this man. I am still not 100% sure I read it right. There is a discussion about bringing up children in a household with abusive drug addict/alcoholic? Two consensual adults could of course choose to live horrible lives but why bring innocent kids to this?