Well, I think he needs to respect you first of all. I understand he may feel upset or stressed out, but he still needs you to respect you and ALL the others. Just keep working on yourself. That's all you can do after all, right? I'd suggest to talk to him and make him understand that you0're just saying that out of genuine concern! Hopefully he'll understand and start to appreciate what you're trying to do! In the meantime, keep working on yourself at your own time and pace! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @rukspc, your Husband, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking no matter what happens, ok?