It is good that you're aware of this, @Gymgirl71! Now you can start working on it. You DO deserve Respect and yes, giving too many chances is not good for our own health. So yes, definitely stand up for yourself. You have EVERY RIGHT to do that! Let us know if we can do something to help, ok? Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Gymgirl71, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking no matter what happens, ok?